MAN and his negative effect on a WOMAN

Was browsing as usual when I came by a post on #Nairaland, it says "Why some women will never get married". Well for starters it annoyed me knowing that the main reason was "them". The pic on the post were 3 ladies in a club doing "only God knows what". Women tend to underestimate themselves and their worth. 
We can never please a man no matter what we do, if you like get all the surgeries in the world, big boobs, big butt, nose enhancement, a botox, he will still not appreciate, and guess what he will leave you for a natural one who is shaped like rectangle. 😂😂😂😂 If you stay natural he will leave you for fake one. You are ugly, he leave you for beautiful one. You are beautiful, he leaves you for ugly one, the list goes on and on and on.

Be yourself and be happy with yourself. Men hardly expose their body to get ladies but we always do that in order to get their attention which will end up ruining us.

This post was made in the very best way possible in order not to sound like a hater for men. I have a dad, brother, male cousins and probably one day a son. If you have no comment of support, please read and move along.
I am who I am and no one, I mean no one can change that.

My encounter with people in the market

So I went to the market yesterday for survey and I got to ask both sellers and buyers questions.
I asked 2 sellers and wanted to do the third when the man said "Didn't you interviewed them already, and it is all the same thing" I turned my back to him cos I don't want him to annoy me. I gave up on him.

My first seller was one guy, he came to buy fish and I was like "Please can I interview you about the fish blah blah blah" and the man just replied "I came to buy fish so why do you need to interview me?" I turned my back to him also. I don't have that patience of listening to him blab, it makes my heart beat fast. If you know kano people, you will understand what I mean. They didn't reply me in a good way, they were mean.
Anyways I went along and got other people to interview and guess what, they didn't go for formal education but they understood my work and cooperated.
It really ain't easy, I gave up at that time on interviewing the guys and thought of interviewing the females only(feminism came in). But then some men allowed the interview to hold and at the end we were all happy.

What I wanted and what I got.

Yesterday, I was lying on my bed watching "scandal" then I remembered how badly I had wanted to become a lawyer. When I was young around 10 people always tell me "You are too curious, you should go for law", "You are smart, you should be a lawyer", "You talk a lot, study law", and all that comments made me wanted to be a lawyer.

I finished my high school successfully, my mom bought me a new laptop while writing my exams (it wasn't a happy graduation laptop, lol). Kept myself busy online while someone told my mom he will get me admission into the university. He kept telling lies about the admission procedures, well my mom seeing he is the so called "head" she sat back but didn't relax. The thing was that all those post ume's that were written, I didn't write even one. There was a day we went to the uni and one man came to meet us, he asked me "what do you want to study?" I answered "Law" and he said that I have a better chance of getting admission if I go into accounting, and I said okay. Months passed, no one gave me a paper to fill, no exam to write, no interview to go to, just a stupid spoiled brat sitting at home.

To cut the story short, my mom got tired and decided to do things herself, her way. I have 2 months now to round up in study. 

My curiosity was meant for research all this while not law.

I still admire law, but I am over it.