Set your goals.

When you set your mind to do something, do not let anything or anyone stop you from reaching your goals. Work hard, determination and zeal will get you there.

What I wanted and what I got.

Yesterday, I was lying on my bed watching "scandal" then I remembered how badly I had wanted to become a lawyer. When I was young around 10 people always tell me "You are too curious, you should go for law", "You are smart, you should be a lawyer", "You talk a lot, study law", and all that comments made me wanted to be a lawyer.

I finished my high school successfully, my mom bought me a new laptop while writing my exams (it wasn't a happy graduation laptop, lol). Kept myself busy online while someone told my mom he will get me admission into the university. He kept telling lies about the admission procedures, well my mom seeing he is the so called "head" she sat back but didn't relax. The thing was that all those post ume's that were written, I didn't write even one. There was a day we went to the uni and one man came to meet us, he asked me "what do you want to study?" I answered "Law" and he said that I have a better chance of getting admission if I go into accounting, and I said okay. Months passed, no one gave me a paper to fill, no exam to write, no interview to go to, just a stupid spoiled brat sitting at home.

To cut the story short, my mom got tired and decided to do things herself, her way. I have 2 months now to round up in study. 

My curiosity was meant for research all this while not law.

I still admire law, but I am over it.

Marriage failure.

Marriage problems.

Cheating: Well i think having a third party in your relationship tends to break the two married couple apart. When you really love someone and that person just doesn't seem to love you back and tends to come home late, always have a private calls away from you, smells like ladies cologne, doesn't pick your calls when you call him at work or at night and then he gives you this stupid excuse like; i'm in a meeting that's why, or i left my phone in the car when i went to Mr.______ or when i was with my pals, just stupid random excuses.......gosh what the hell.

Steps to finding out whether he/she really is cheating on you.

Why do we get married? Is it because of money or love? When we get married cos of money then that's what we get, in case he/she doesn't show you love in any freaking way do not blame your partner, blame yourself. Money doesn't and will never buy love. You either love the person or you don't, that is it.






Couples always fighting over random stuff or just one reason:
I mean gosh what are you guys? kids? Sit down and talk things over. Find the cause of your problems and sort it out. Conversations are the best way to get all your problems out, instead of fighting and yelling, calm down and talk about your problems with your spouse.









Whenever the two of you are fighting you are breaking your kids heart. Think about them not just you, what you are doing to them.

What does this always lead to?

"Divorse"

This is the biggest heart breaker for your kids, families breaking apart, mum taking custody of the kids, they have two homes now not one. And trust me they will surely hate one and like the other more.............so if you want to keep on fighting and get divorced, think first on who you want the kids to hate more.

so i say